Monday, September 13, 2010

an epiphany.

From now on, I'm going to try to be nice. Not that I'm a total bitch now, it's just that I know there are people out there who I choose to avoid, for no reason in particular. It's not as if people choose what they look like, or who they are friends with.
Everybody likes to feel comfortable, wanted, needed. And if they are comfortable with who they are and who they hang out with, then that's fine with me. It really is.

Sometimes I judge people too quickly, by first impressions, by appearance, by social "ranking" (what utter bullshit), and so very often, I judge people by what others tell me. I don't want to do that anymore. It's not fair of me, to make opinions on people I don't even know.

So I know I can't be nice to everyone. But unless you've done or said something that would cause me not to, then I guess there is no reason why I shouldn't like you.

If you look at the bigger picture, we're all losers, really. I mean, everybody dies.

So who wins the game of life? No one.