Word of the day
Supercilious - having or showing arrogant superiority to and disdain of those one views as unworthy.
Synonyms: snide, sneering, haughty, disdainful.
Seeing as so far here I've been all sentimental and girly, I've decided this post I'll have to resort to being that snide bitch that I am in real life. Not that being a snide bitch is bad thing, mind. :)
So what am I talking about? Love. I shudder at the thought of it. Not real love, I mean it's obviously a good thing to love and be loved. But it's the juvenile, teenage idea of love that pisses me off. All those 'ILY's' and 'I love you's' that get passed around so carelessly make me feel sick. I don't care if you say it to your friends, yeah whatever. I know I rarely do, but I'm part Asian - I don't even tell my mother I love her. *shocked*
What I get annoyed at is how in teenage relationships people can tell each other they love each other within the first few weeks of a relationship. How can you even know so soon unless you've known them for years? Most of the time the words are hardly meant, just thrown about because thats just 'what you're meant to say.' But if they're not meant then why say them? It just ends in someone getting hurt.
And that makes me feel like a hypocrite because I've definitely done/said things like it without meaning it. But never again. Trust me.
I just can't take relationships now seriously. They just seem so juvenile and unrealistic, and they all will have to end at some point, because truthfully do you seriously want to be with this guy/girl for the rest of your life? Are you going to get married to them? Most chances are, you most definitely won't. So cut it with the 'love' until you're ready. Sure, have relationships, and have fun. Be experimental. But don't expect it to last because it won't. Don't feel hurt when it really isn't worth it. And most of all, don't lie. Mean what you say, or don't say anything at all.